Marriage
Marriage is a commitment that no one can take lightly. It is a serious, loving, and lifelong union. It is an unbreakable bond, for it is permanent, irreversible, and irrevocable. Only the betrayal of adultery and fornication can dissolve the sanctity of marriage.
Marriage is a sacred union between a man and a woman. All other unions are considered abominable and perverse in the eyes of the divine. Those who approach marriage without reverence find themselves unprepared for its demands. Such unions often fracture under pressure, leading to divorce—a path that requires beginning the spiritual work again. Marriage demands inner strength and commitment, for it is the forge where consciousness is tempered and refined. Divorce represents a detour from this sacred work, while marriage offers the direct path to spiritual maturity.
For those who have stumbled, the path of redemption remains open through conscious work. Just as a wounded body can be healed through proper care, the soul can be restored through sincere repentance and the practice of transmutation. The Elohim judge not to condemn but to offer the path of return – for where sin abounds, grace can abound much more when the consciousness awakens.
The basis for marriage is the coitus reservatus, the holy use of sex. It has nothing to do with forms, words, contracts, or rituals. It is sacred among the Gods and Goddesses. The name of the Gods and Goddesses is the Elohim.
“Marriage is honorable by all, and the bed undefiled; for the adulterers and fornicators, the Elohim will judge” – Hebrews 13:4 People know how to get married, yet many struggle to make it work. It is their failure to comprehend the proper use of marriage that leads to divorce and despair. All marriages fail due to one's inability to understand the seriousness of marriage.
Whosoever marries their spouse, their life changes forever. Whenever you get married, there is no turning back.
Boyfriend and girlfriend, before wedlock, must take vows of chastity forever. None of them must eat the forbidden fruit. To eat the forbidden fruit is fornication. Those who fornicate will never live happily ever after. Both couples must slowly prepare themselves for the coitus reservatus. Months to prepare oneself for the arcanum with one's spouse are paramount. Once they do the coitus reservatus, the holy cross is permanent. A man and a woman are married for life, and their honeymoon will last a lifetime.
Each spouse must undergo permanent responsibilities. The man must sacrifice his last drop of blood for his woman; likewise, the woman must sacrifice her last drop of blood for her man. The selfless sacrifice is the doorway to heaven.
Let this truth be known for all men and women: when a man and a woman have sex for the first time, they are permanently married. The secret of having sex is to introduce the virile member into the vagina and withdraw it without spilling the divine seed through the orgasm. The secret is the coitus reservatus, as Samael Aun Weor emphasized.
Through the holy sex, both couples re-enter the Garden of Eden to conquer all paradise lost.
Sex and marriage are one.